Category: Success

Reflections From 10 Years In

5035918427_d0252f88e3_bExactly ten years ago, I was wrapping up my 2nd week in a new job at a new company. I was also 6 months pregnant.

As with every new role, I was a little nervous. But this time things felt different – the stakes felt especially high. I was working for one of the most admired companies around and they took a chance on me – even with my upcoming maternity leave. read more »

Giving Thanks For Work

IMG_427722We started a new tradition in our house this year – it’s called a Thankful Tree. This is a paper tree, taped to our basement door, with taped-on construction paper leaves.  It isn’t fancy but it is an opportunity for our family to document what we are thankful for.  It is more than just a fun craft project – it is a chance to think about the things that are important to us. Some of the “thankful leaves” are silly – like ice cream or days without homework – but there are glimmers of real reflection and thought like health, a happy family, and a comfortable home.

This exercise got me thinking about all of the things in my work life that I am thankful for. Each and every day I feel lucky to be where I am in my career but sometimes it is nice to write those things down as a reminder. Here is my Work Thankful List for 2015:

TRUST – My company trusts me with the gift of flexibility. Because of this, I have the opportunity to be part of my family’s daily routine, to not miss out on events at school, to take my kids to an appointment or to be with them when they are sick. This has a huge impact on my life. In my eyes, I get to “have it all” – a balanced family and a successful career.

EMPOWERMENT – I’ve been given the opportunity to shift and evolve based on business needs – both as an individual and a team. Even better, the chance to work on new projects that are personally important. Right now, I’m working with a rock star cross-organizational project team to inspire employees to embrace social media. How cool is that? My company is particularly good at this. Don’t believe me? Check out this inspiring story behind the One4 Project.

PEOPLE – Our team, located all over the world, is amazing and supportive. Each day I learn something new about someone and it helps me appreciate the diverse cultures and backgrounds that make each person unique. My role also gives me the ability to connect with people all over the world – both inside and outside of my company.  In fact, some of whom inspired me to write this very post.

What are you thankful for this year?

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Embracing Your Intuition at Work

Picture2Intuition is a funny word. Some call it gut feeling, others say inner voice, or it can bethat feeling in the pit of your stomach when I instinctively know something is wrong, or conversely when something is right even though the facts say otherwise.

Sometimes we shy away from embracing our intuition at work because it can been seen as irrational, based on emotion, and all about feelings instead of facts. InMalcolm Gladwell’s book, Blink, he talks about the power of those first 2 seconds of a situation where we make a fast decision (although he doesn’t use the word intuition) and many times this can lead to better results that working through mounds of research.

Disclaimer – before you get worried, I’m not at all saying we should make all decisions using intuition.

Recently I had the opportunity to speak to a group of women on this topic. Here are the five situations (including a quick tip to get started) I shared where embracing your intuition might help you in the office:

Situation 1 – Taking Risks  

Ever see a job description for your dream job and then get scared off by the requirements – either the years of experience or the potential impact to our home life? Ignore the job requirements and ask “why not me?” Many times the listed requirements are a guide, not a rule.

Growth comes when we are operating outside of our comfort zone so don’t be afraid to take smart risks and say yes to opportunities. Use your intuition to guide you to the right opportunities – and then once you get them trust that you will succeed.

Intuition Quick Tip #1 – When considering a new opportunity ask yourself – “what is holding me back from saying yes?”  If it is fear, maybe it is time to take that risk.

Situation 2 – Making Smart Decisions

Just as important as saying yes, is knowing when to say no. I read this great article recently by Adam Grant and Sheryl Sandberg that talked about women’s tendency to do “office housework.” We instinctively like to help people – whether it be organizing office events, mentoring people, or even getting the coffee for a meeting. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing – we get great satisfaction out of helping people – I know I do.

The downside is that it can be time consuming and overwhelming – and it doesn’t do much to further our careers.

Let your intuition guide you and tell you if something isn’t worth your time.

Intuition Quick Tip #2 – When someone asks you to work on something you feel might now be valuable, ask the tough questions. Try “how will this add value to our customers?”  

Situation 3 – Speaking Up

We’ve all heard Sheryl Sandberg talk about leaning in and taking a seat at the table.  This is very true. But once we sit, we need to speak.

How many times have you been in a meeting and people are debating an issue. You see a clear and simple solution in your head but don’t speak up because you aren’t sure it is right. Then, a colleague says exactly what you were thinking and is applauded for coming up with a smart solution.

It is okay not to be perfect.

When we do speak up, please don’t apologize. I wrote a blog a few months ago on meaningless apologies. Meaningless apologies in the workplace undermine our power and authority.

Intuition Quick Tip #3 – Instead of saying, “Sorry to interrupt but I have a question.” Try “Excuse me, I have a question.”

Situation 4 – Leading Your Team

Don’t copy someone else’s leadership style – embrace your own.  Use empathy if that is comfortable for you. Research shows empathy is powerful to driving business forward and in building relationships across cultures.

At times we can instinctively know what people’s strengths – celebrate those and share feedback with your team and others if they are open. Also, seek feedback – this can give us the confidence to trust in our decisions. Self-awareness is powerful.

Intuition Quick Tip #4 – Each week, actively give and seek out one piece of feedback. Ask “how did I come across in that meeting?”

Situation 5 – Investing in You

I like to say you need to be your own CEO. This means taking ownership, pushing forward, and thinking strategically about your career – just as you would the head of the company but in this case, the company is you.

Own your brand – embrace all that is you. The Oscar Wilde quote “Be Yourself Because Everyone Else is Already Taken” is very true. Make sure that when you google yourself, you like what you see. Authenticity is the best quality.

You need to ask and share…share your successes and career aspirations and ask for what you deserve in the workplace.

Finally, surround yourself with a smart network that you trust. Rely on your intuition to help you determine who these people are. They are the ones who have your back and are invested and support your success.

Intuition Quick Tip #5 – Set up time to share your career aspirations with your manager. It can be uncomfortable but it doesn’t have to be. Try “I’d like to set up time for us to talk through some of the career goals I Have set for myself.”

Let’s let go of our fear, be confident in ourselves, get out of our comfort zone, and please stop apologizing.

I’d love to hear from you – was there a time where your intuition told you something and you failed to listen? How would things be different if you listened?

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Productivity Life Hacks For Work

14644698262_a5c82ef836_zLike many working parents, I sat in front of my computer last week distressed. Another snow day with four kids off from school. How would I get anything accomplished?

I thought I’d tap into my inner “productivity whiz” to make it through the day with a few more items crossed off my to-do list. read more »

3 Work Resolutions to Keep in 2015

5020840511_013bf66db9_zI admit it – I’m not a big fan of New Year’s Resolutions.  Usually because they involve limiting myself in some way that is supposed to make me “better.” For me, this approach only lasts a few weeks before I revert back to old behaviors.

This year I’m doing something different. I’m breaking my big, lofty resolutions into daily, weekly, and monthly mini-goals.  read more »

3 Reasons To Get Off The Career Ladder

380240868_17cacecd3e_zSeveral years ago, I made a pretty major career shift. I had been on an upward career track – each move promoted up a level and taking on more, steadily moving up the ladder.  But I found, the higher I rose within my team, the less I was learning. Even for the roles I hadn’t tried in our team, I felt I knew enough to take it on and easily be successful.

Although my reputation was solid, my peers respected me, and my stakeholders were happy, I was feeling stagnant and my work felt like “been there, done that.” read more »

Don’t Do This To Find A New Job

76842148_1d693d1f7d_zA few years back I received a connection request on LinkedIn from someone I did not know. I’m not a person who gets bothered by this or who turns down random connections. I see LinkedIn as a great tool to expand my network beyond those people I currently know. Some of my best networking and opportunities have come to me via LinkedIn. read more »

Five Step Formula To Take the Social Media Plunge

Diving BoardOne of my most favorite parts of my job is getting to work with senior executives interested in taking the plunge into social media. Usually they know they have to do something but don’t know where to start. I absolutely love this topic and helping folks slowly step into the scary social media universe. Let’s face it, it is scary. Nothing terrified me more than getting ready to hit send on my first tweet. But, we are really missing out if we jump in. There are things to learn, people to meet, and discussions to be had.

Here is the five step formula I use to help folks get started: read more »

Four Things I’ve Learned From Coaching

coachYou could say I have a passion for coaching. I coach my daughter’s volleyball team, not only because I love the sport, but because I love helping others be successful. This follows me to the office too. Nothing gives me more satisfaction than seeing people grow and develop in their careers and realizing their potential. It gives me great joy to see mentees take on a new role or leaders building their social brands. Coaching fuels me.

The fringe benefit of coaching? The plethora of things I learn from those I coach and mentor – not only about business or sports – but about myself.

Here are a few of the I’ve learned over the years: read more »

Build Strong Stakeholder Relationships That Last

5072523945_249e20ca9e_z (2)Many of my roles through the years have involved being an advisor and partner to a senior stakeholder – especially during consulting engagements or when I was building their marketing strategy. This can be a tough job but is always so rewarding. I relish in supporting their success and the success of their team.

Sometimes the toughest part of this job is the relationship building. There are times when you get introduced to a stakeholder and you quickly need to move from a stranger to a trusted advisor.  read more »